Send a short email to WAH saying push off, we've nothing to discuss until you show yourself fit to be a father.
and.. most important of all.. further my own detachment by having NO EXPECTATIONS.
Good plan- but I would like to suggest living in the present, too. Day by day. It was the hardest and the best thing for me to do! It helps with no expectations! (Don't get me wrong- I plan events and outings for the future but I try my darndest to stay grounded in the here and now)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
