Trust me. It's not easy. I think..if I walk away with anything from this, is that I have been able to stay under control.

During this journey, I have met several divorced women who were either cheated on or abandoned by their H's. They push their kids to their XH's. They give them schedules..itineraries....tell them what to buy...what they need...etc. They complain if their XH's aren't giving enough time to their kids.

Me? Excluded. Uninformed. Kids locked in car or left somewhere else if she needs to stop home so that I can't see them. Etc.

Personally, I believe that she will do whatever possible to remove them from me and, as a physician, if I am ever late to get them, she will use every opportunity to file a motion to remove parenting time from me.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;