Once a marriage is turned over to the mediators/attorneys it becomes a business. Hence...... So, as this gets started it just tends to snowball downhill.
The most important thing right now is to protect yourself. The courts favor the woman in most circumstances. I recommend that you have your mediator/atty request whatever you feel is necessary to survive. Almost all of us (including me, even as a professional) are left in some sort of financial quagmire.
Hang in. You'll be OK.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;