GREAT JOB finding your courage and confronting him! But, like Allen says, it has only just begun. Did you have a list of things you need from your H? Did you check out Melody's thread?

If I were you, I would save the exposure to the daughter for when things start to get worse.

Your H will go through "withdrawal" most likely so be very very alert with your verification of no contact. Will you be going to counseling? Will he?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004