OK thanks. I'm going to give it a week or two with no pursuing, no R, M, or A talk and see what happens.
If it comes to the point where I need to enforce the boundary, I'm going to need a lot of help. I am very bad at that. All of my attempts to kick her out have been futile. Partly because I'm concerned about the legality of it and her being able to say that I THREW her out.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
