He doesn't get any more BBJ access. We will be together on Wednesday to tell the kids, and then there will be nothing left to say to each other except occasional 'just the facts' exchanges re. the kids...which can be accomplished via email when/if necessary.
There is nothing left to say, nothing left to do but tell the kids and move forward. At least they will know and I will feel freer that I am not hiding anything from them.
I am sure we could have done the prep for our talk over the phone or via email. But I wanted to see his face and see if it bothered him at all to be telling our kids this. I know it was unnecessary, but I wanted it. And I got it. And it's over now...
My main priority is my kids, keeping them healthy and happy and secure as much as possible. And of course doing the same for myself.
