Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[beingreal]

That's a good thing, I'd try hard to maintain that relationship. If you make a point of not sitting next to them, it might make them feel awkward. Of course, sitting next to them might make them feel awkward, too. lol Any chance of being around them and just acting as if there's no problem? Because really, the problem isn't with them. FWIW, they are probably just as unsure as you are.

(as if, see? I'm learning!)

One of my friends says the best part of her D was that she got to keep her MIL. She adores her MIL. I'm trying to treat them as though nothing were wrong between H & I. Of course they know better--but still. They are probably just as nervous as the kids are, they adore the boys & I have no intentions of making them "pay".