DiamondGirl,
Relax. What is the worst thing that could happen? Your not going to be homeless and it may be a blessing to get out from under your current home. One thing it looks like your doing is assuming responsibility for everything. The house it appears is a joint asset. A joint business venture between you and your H. He needs to share in the decision making as it will have a direct affect on him.

Along the same lines it looks like your taking responsibility for your H's A. Like its up to you to end his R with OW. Do you really think you have control of his relationships? Lets say you are the source of the breakup. Do you think your H will thank you or blame you?

Let go Girl. Focus on you. Choose one thing that will make your life better today and do it. You can do this.

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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09