So here is my Cainer horoscope for today:

Quote:

Discretion is the greater part of valour this week. Don't say any more than you have to, and watch diligently for the impact that even the few, carefully chosen words you do employ are likely to have. You're dealing with a delicate, sensitive situation. It is, however, easy to forget this due to the intensity of what you feel... and the urgency of what is taking place. The rights and wrongs are not clear-cut but one thing's absolutely certain: you have far more power, influence and strength than you realise. Saturn's sharp link to your ruler is urging you to tread firmly, but softly.




Keeps me thinking.

My H was here with us most of the weekend. He came over Friday night and stayed late, came back Saturday morning so all of us could go with my folks to the spring fest for our major league baseball team.

Later Sat, he took S5 on errands while I took D9 and S3 to hockey. Then he went to a surprise birthday party for a guy I don't know. I did let him know that I would like to go to those type of events with him, that the smoky bar won't bug me (maybe a little) and that I don't care if I don't know anyone (I don't). He said he was only going for a couple of hours and that he didn't think I'd enjoy this crowd and that he'd make it up to me.

Well, he came back over at about 10:30 p.m. and made it up to me and then stayed over night! (He didn't say so, but I am guessing that this was his way of making it up to me - staying over for the first time in a while)

He had me set the alarm to get up early but still left enough time to before he went to his apartment to shower and change and come back.

When he came back, he cooked breakfast for kids and watched them while I went to church. Then we did D9's game and he came back for a bit before taking off to go ice-fishing.

So good weekend all in all, although no opportunity came up to invite him to move home. But again, I go by his actions around here and stay positive. He is rediscovering that I can be fun in response to his better mood. So I guess I am mirroring him like I read in someone else's thread.

Anyway, so it goes....

totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."