Great advice!!! Yes, it has been 2 years since the divorce was final. I don't know if I'm ready to date, but I'm ready to get out & have some fun. I really don't think this will be a date, it's mostly just meeting this person. It will be with a group, so I think I'm ready for that. I'm actually ready for a change.
Thank you so much for the advice, my ex married that woman 2 months after our divorce was final, I'm not moving that fast! I was like you, I would never date as long as I was married & besides that, I had to give it time. Part of me still feels like I'm M but that feeling is going further away. It's tough being alone. I have my dog, she is like my child & I enjoy just being with her, but it is time to get out. I will be very careful b/c right now, I have a hard time trusting people, especially after all that I have been thru. If this get together happens, great if it doesn't, no worries.
I may not be ready, I'm just ready to get out a little more.