50,000 doesn't sound like much but it is a lot more than many of us were left with (I was left with negative money since he cleared out our checking account without telling me and I had to pay months of back owed things)
is there something you would like to do, could tolerate doing, etc
I know I had to suck it up and get my butt in gear to pay everything back as well as having to pay for all the kids stuff (yes he was ordered to pay child suport, no he hasn't paid it...I am owed over 60,000 back support...would be nice to thave that for the boys' college for sure)
not everybody is trying to invalidate or attack you...people are just throwing out suggestions
