It is a character flaw of mine, that I am already aware of, that I am extremely uncomfortable when I feel that others do not like me. Even if I don't like someone, I hate knowing that they don't like me!? I have gotten better when it comes to people on the edges of my life, but obv still need work when it comes to people closer to me...
We are telling the kids together tomorrow. If he gives any reason not to at this point, then I will tell them myself.