It sounds extremely stressful Poet. Aside from the monetary difficulties this imposes there is also the emotional side where you feel so violated. The person who you loved for 14 years is now treating you like an enemy! I know of a few others on this thread that are going through similar experiences and they all seem shocked at the positions their spouses are taking. It sure takes an emotional toll, doesn't it. So hang in there, keep us updated and try to pray. He'll give you the strength to get through.
