Hi all. Need to keep track of my sitch here so thought I'd journal a bit and pose some questions along the way.

Last Thursday, my H came over to spend evening here since I had to go volunteer at hockey rink. When he came I had hoped to go get some errands done to get ready for weekend out of town.

Well, the kids went out in the back to skate, so I am in bathroom getting dressed and he comes in and locks door and starts getting frisky. We end up in bed again and I only get a few errands done.

Then the kids and I take off for weekend up north. We talk a bit each night when kids call to say goodnight.

On Monday, he called my cell to find out when we were leaving the resort. Then as we got closer to home we talked again and the call started to get pretty suggestive.

I told him I couldn't face cooking after driving all afternoon so he went and picked up dinner and met us at the house. Then he unloaded the entire truck for me!

The kids went downstairs to play and we got frisky some more. Then after the kids went to bed, he stayed for a while to watch news and .

He came over for dinner last night and took D9 (her b-day was Monday) to practice and took S3 with him.

Interestingly enough, he stayed here at least one night while we were gone. He didn't tell me that. When we on Monday night, I saw that the bed was made up differently from when I last did it. I asked him what night he stayed. He said he couldn't remember. I said good - not that you didn't remember, but that you stayed here.

He also did some light cleaning while here in the living room - vacuuming and straightening up. Last night he helped the boys straighten and vacuum their rooms again too - which he did last week.

I guess I'll never understand why he isn't living here. Is it the loss of pride in changing his mind?

I am reading threads about what happens immediately before an WAS returns hoping to find some insights. Any ideas out there?

When we were goofing around on Monday night, he looked at me and smiled and said "what are you thinking?". I told him, "I promised you I wouldn't bug you and I won't." It lets him know what I am thinking (him coming home)without my bringing the subject up.

But that is getting predictable. The next time he opens that door, I may take a peek inside. I may simply respond that I am trying to figure out what it will take for you to come back home. And then leave it at that.

Well, I'm caught up, I think...still swimming

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