Originally Posted By: Dan1977
I think someone said this was her ex-husband, but in fact he is her ex-boyfriend. In total she has only know this guy about 4 months. They dated for about 2 months before we were married, and they have been chatting/texting for about 2 months. It's a fantasy for her, this guy isn't real, it's some fairytale she's living.


doesnt matter who he is or what he is.

HE IS NOT YOU. and fantasys are the worst. they preoccupy your soul. please dont play it off as a fairy tale that will come to an end, some women dream of being the princess that is rescued by a knight in shining armor.





Originally Posted By: Dan1977
She talked to me some about what is going on and she told me how she is the type of person that when told what to do, she wants to do the opposite.


Boy you got it effing easy then! Tell her go to this other guy, live with him, love him, marry him. We are getting a divorce ASAP.