She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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Steady your correct, but I guess I was just surprised at how well things were going because of how hopeless things seemed.

I expected her to look at things the same way I guess. We have good times together, but seem to always end up on the R talk.


Yesterday was frustrating for me because I had spent the weekend away, and she was once again leaving. She came over after work and sensed the frustration and negativity, so she left. However before she could leave we had the R talk in the driveway.

She's tire of having these talks and wouldn't speak to me for the rest of the night. I had asked her to set one day a week for a specific time to have the R talk and she liked the idea. We have MC set up for next week, and that's when we're going to do this.

I don't want to keep having these talks. I actually want a chance to keep spending time together and rebuilding not rehashing.

I know there are going to be hiccups, and yesterday was a hiccup, but she sees it as the same old me even though it wasn't. I need to be patient and stop trying to rush things, but the results were so good so fast that I started to get ahead of myself.

There's times I just want to give up and move o because it's so frustrating, but I can't do that. The fact that shes willing to work on this speaks volumes.

I need to get back to the basics and realize what i did to make things go well. I veared of the path and need to get back on it.