I also do a form of "pay it forward". It is just phone based and in person based here in Dallas and not so much online based now. I have a group of friends that have formed from this site that I speak to regularly and try to offer support and advice where asked. We also get together about once a month for a group dinner and then meet individually now and then. Some texting, some emailing and some talking on the phone.
So I am definitely involved in continuing to try and offer support and advice to friends here in the area going through this. And they also offer the same for me.
I am going to a baseball game with one of them tonight which I am looking forward to. It should be a fun time.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...