I filed at small claims for my money today. Tired of being walked over. I don't know why I thought she'd be financially responsible when she's not been morally or legally so.

It will screw her career. It will screw her credit score. But she's had adequate warning now. And I don't care that she can't reply this week as she's on holiday with OM. Simply more evidence that she can't be bothered to pay despite having the money.

Feeling good. Had a lovely night out last night with a friend, dinner out and then saw Blind Side at the flicks - fantastic film. Off to work in another 15 mins, and then full social calendar this week and away bank holiday weekend. Life for me is mostly good. If she wants to live a life where she's hated by her family, despised by someone she bothered to marry and hates herself (well she told me she did after we separated), then she's welcome to it. I know that I have nothing to feel bad about regarding my actions, just regret about being taken for a 3yr ride by her.

Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.