Hi CL,
I withdrew the comments from my previous post because on reflection I thought the tone of the post was very harsh. However after reading Docs post I just thought I would repost the last comment it contained.

“Thanks for posting. Your reaction is a reality check for me."
I don’t think it is.

“and heard what I thought were moans.... and I noticed my W in a robe and her pants on the floor.
This should be the real reality check”.

Lanzo