Be careful about dating. If you honestly (when you look in the mirror and you are honest with yourself) think you are not ready, then you don't want to be dating. If you're not excited about it, think clearly about your reasons for going. Are you trying to "get over" H, or show yourself that you can? Are you ready to date?
Personally, as long as I am M, I will never date and I will wait 1 year before dating after D, but it will likely be longer than a year. You have those met - so think it through clearly. Doesn't sound to me like you're ready, but maybe it's just the way you worded the above.
