You are right Fergie, we all choose our time to move on. My time was just a few months ago after having spent 9 months improving myself. Maybe it took me longer because I have kids. Do you have any kids Fergie?
V1olin: No, we don't. It was one of the things I settled for with my W. She doesn't do well with kids, sleep deprivation, extra work, stress, etc. That was something we actually both agreed on. But I myself was lukewarm about having kids by the time I hit 35. Ultimately I made the decision to make sure our birth control was permanent and I was okay with that, for the sake of our marriage.
If we had kids, this would be a much harder decision, and be much more drawn out. So, I'm on the accelerated DB plan.
