Is this piecing?

[flowmom]

Well Hope I think you deserve a lot of credit for 1. staying dim and 2. choosing to communicate in a safer context = MC. It's great to have the MC back you up on basic stuff. I can certainly relate to how the buildup of hurt seriously undermined my ability to be open and giving to H, and brought out the worst in me.

I hope that you're starting to feel just a little bit more peace each day...