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If You Forget Me
I want you to know
one thing.

You know how this is:
if I look
at the crystal moon, at the red branch
of the slow autumn at my window,
if I touch
near the fire
the impalpable ash
or the wrinkled body of the log,
everything carries me to you,
as if everything that exists,
aromas, light, metals,
were little boats
that sail
toward those isles of yours that wait for me.

Well, now,
if little by little you stop loving me
I shall stop loving you little by little.

If suddenly
you forget me
do not look for me,
for I shall already have forgotten you.


If you think it long and mad,
the wind of banners
that passes through my life,
and you decide
to leave me at the shore
of the heart where I have roots,
remember
that on that day,
at that hour,
I shall lift my arms
and my roots will set off
to seek another land.

But
if each day,
each hour,
you feel that you are destined for me
with implacable sweetness,
if each day a flower
climbs up to your lips to seek me,
ah my love, ah my own,
in me all that fire is repeated,
in me nothing is extinguished or forgotten,
my love feeds on your love, beloved,
and as long as you live it will be in your arms
without leaving mine.

– Pablo Neruda


I read this on Priya's blog...I liked it. If you forget me....It includes a promise and a threat, autonomy and dedication, love and detachement. And it sounds healthy.


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It is so nice to hear things are going well. Life is such a roller coaster any way that you really learn to appreciate the smooth places!

Still thinking of you and your parents. hugs, kat


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My brother brought us home a 4moth old doberman pincher. We are trying to get my mom a dog. To keep her company ... frown

The puppy is cute but I wanted a lab.

H turned down my idea to go and stay at a sap hotel on Friday "he wants to be with the kids". I told him if he wants to be with the kids he should make sure their mom loves him. He got the point...
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Originally Posted By: Kalni
My brother brought us home a 4moth old doberman pincher. We are trying to get my mom a dog. To keep her company ... frown

The puppy is cute but I wanted a lab.

H turned down my idea to go and stay at a sap hotel on Friday "he wants to be with the kids". I told him if he wants to be with the kids he should make sure their mom loves him. He got the point...
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If you want a lab, take the other one back. It will be easier sooner than later....

Love what you said to your H... smile Good point!

And since no one has asked, I would like a giant margarita please!


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On the way sis!!

Cant take the puppy back, his master is in intensive care and it was brought to my brother (vet) to rescue. We were loking for a small dog and he is one small cute dog. But he is very...crazy, I want a lazier dog, to match my personality...
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Me too, based on my desires for a dog (lay beside me, let me pet it, cuddle, minimal exercise needed) I should have.....a stuffed animal one! smile


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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo

And since no one has asked, I would like a giant margarita please!


I posted really early! smile Let's try a sea breeze shall we!! lol

kat


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"4month old doberman pincher."

"We were looking for a small dog and he is one small cute dog."

Is he a mini pin?

If not... http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/doberman.htm

Scroll to weight.

"But he is very...crazy, I want a lazier dog, to match my personality..."

Dobermans.. if trained right.. match you 110%. Never find a more loyal dog. They would die for you..

Mini Pins.. are just a pain in the as$. I have one I will send to you.. if you are interested. Think BIG DOG.. little body. Kinda sounds like your H.

"I told him if he wants to be with the kids he should make sure their mom loves him. He got the point..."

"Crazy Talk" wins?

What is SAP hotel?


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.


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(((((Kalni)))))
I am becoming happier and happier for you!

And jealous! smile

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It was meant to be SPA hotel, we do massage, saouna, I will do some waxing, facial, he will do pool and we have dinner and stay there, morning in bed and we go home. That would be the plan depending on how my dad goes.

It is a pincher. Not the miniature one. And he didnt cry at all all last night, we left him in the hallway, he didnt pee or anything either. My mom was happy.

I know pinchers are crazy but he was homeless... My brother couldnt resist giving it a try. If we cant make it with him, we will have o find him another home. But he looks cuter and cuter... My kids loved him.
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