On Sunday, I found a text from the OW to H. It said Tuesday night was fun. Remember I was out of town last week. I found that courage and I told H that there was no more open marriage. The affair needed to over today. He said he broke up with her on Thursday and that he had texted her last week. But the text was a lie. I did some investigating and yes the text was a lie. H was with S at school orientation. I confirmed it. However, no contact is no contact. H agreed to no contact and transparency. However, I don't have any unknown intel for H. So I decided to call the OW. I told her that she needed to stop, she laughed. Then I told her I would tell her daughter what she was doing. That was the key. She got really mad, I told her that she should not be doing things she didn't want to explain to her 11 year old. Well that was it. She texted my H saying that I better not threaten her with her kid. She is in a nasty custody battle. Then demanded via text that H call her. When he didn't call her, she sent the same text about threatening her with her kid. She sent him an email last night that said she couldn't believe he would stay with a person like me and to never contact her again.
H sent me the email he received from her and told me when he saw her in the hall at work. She glared at him. I don't care I will expose to her kid, and expose her on cheaters registry.com and any other place I can find. I have had it.
The old Zen is back and she is a fire breathing dragon. No more. If H continues, he can leave. I will pack his stuff.
I will be married to a man that is emotionally and physically monogamous. End of story.
So I joined the company softball team, and a non competitive golf league. Me Me Me
PS H did buy me a new motorcycle which I am practicing on. H paid for it and it is my name!
Allen, Puppy and Newmama I was scared to death but I did it. I have spend the last 13 months as a doormat. No sure how this will turn out, but I have set some serious boundaries. If H wants the OW he can have her. I will expose him to his clients. Don't behave in ways that you would be embarrased to tell your mom.
