Totite, my H is son's step dad..so son is fine. He actually has said get a d and get it over with...he doesn't like the way H has been treating me. 12 going on 13 and respects and likes women...I did something right there! Thank God. Thank you for asking though and thanks for stopping by my thread....you are doing great, you keep up the great PMA and know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. Akgal sending big hugs out to you...