Thanks Abbey, it helps to hear from people who ahve been in my situation. Right now my heart is saying to stand back and wait, but as you said I still need to get my ducks in a row and lawyer up. He is just as stunned and confused as I am, but he did acknowledge that his actions towards me are inexcusable. So that gives me something to cling to, even though I know it's a false hope it's still something, ya know? And yes, the next several months are going to be torturous but I just need to plug along and pray my way through them.
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