I know some of you will think I am still trying to make heads or tails out of this MLC....and I probably am. It's so frustrating! I have limited my contact with h to just business stuff. Tonight I met him briefly to hand over some bills that he has to pay. And I do mean briefly....we pulled our cars up side by side. What amazes me is when I am simply giving him the bills and explaining some other business, he automatically gets snarky. And, then later on started the text messaging again with his horrible comments.
I cut the texts off quickly. He is so paranoid about everything and even though I know they do this, it catches me off guard because the things he says are so nutty.
When I first went to his place, his woman friend was in his parking space talking on her cell phone. At one point early on I thought they were an item, but now realize they really are just friends. She lives with her boyfriend. I talked to her briefly and thanked her for being his friend since I was no longer there. She immediately started telling me she was just friends with him and I assured her that I knew that. While I was talking to her, her cell phone rang and I heard her say yes. Sure enough, it was h on the phone asking her if I was there. He called me back to let me know he was on his way and could I meet him halfway. I said sure, no problem. When I did see him, I told him his friend looked awful and I was concerned about her. She has the look of "rode hard, put away wet." He told me she had lost her job today and was very upset. And then he said he was going to talk to her and see if he could encourage her. And then he sped off.
So, he can encourage this person who obviously has some major problems in her life with drugs and alcohol besides her job, but with me he is critical. He told me I was a burden on society because I'm on unemployment. But his friend can lose one job after another and he's ok with that. I think they not only affair down, but they also friend down.
I told h that our daughter had broken her ankle. She has RSD, which is a horrible disorder. She has nerve damage in her left foot that travels up her leg. Breaking her ankle is certainly not a good thing for her. Now a normal father would be concerned about his daughter. But, he looked like it didn't phase him at all. He has not spoken to d since he left in November. His reply was "well, I sent her a text and she didn't reply, so I guess she doesn't want to talk to me." I was thinking wah! somebody call the wambulance!! But, I kept my mouth shut.
It's times like these that I wish I could just run away from it all. But, I can't do that.
I think they not only affair down, but they also friend down. 
