You are right, I probably won't bring up the schedule part, but he made such an issue of it that is is hard to not say something. But that is what I run through the "will it get you closer to your goal" filter and then end up chucking it.
It is funny but the schedule works for him, because it is based on his needs. I am starting to let him know when I need time to do things so he is starting to consider that now.
In fact, he took kids overnight for first time in a month, so I can get some work done. When I dropped D8 off after hockey practice he said, go home and work on your consulting project...so he did hear me! And I had only mentioned it briefly in an email earlier this week...
My D8 told me that both my S5 and S3 got to H's apartment and told him to pack up and come home - yeah for them. At least they told him and not me - it doesn't do them any good to say it to me because I feel the same way.
Anyway - thanks for your continued support!
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"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
