I hope that you do fill me in sometime, I've been waiting. it would help a lot to see what has really changed.
I am glad that you are taking care of yourself...just be careful how far you go...meaning, if you are set on D, the biggest issue at hand is having your kids still have a secure R with both their mother and father. I know you haven't talked to them, but I hope you do before you make any major decision, only because they are old enough.
I'm really proud of you for the 5k!! and obviously it has done great for you with your "old" clothes fitting! I want that too!
anyways, hugs to you, and I hope you have a good and stress-less week.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."