I hope that you do fill me in sometime, I've been waiting. it would help a lot to see what has really changed.
I am glad that you are taking care of yourself...just be careful how far you go...meaning, if you are set on D, the biggest issue at hand is having your kids still have a secure R with both their mother and father. I know you haven't talked to them, but I hope you do before you make any major decision, only because they are old enough.
I'm really proud of you for the 5k!! and obviously it has done great for you with your "old" clothes fitting! I want that too!
anyways, hugs to you, and I hope you have a good and stress-less week.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I have hired a lawyer... One thing to eff with me and bring me down to my knees... Quite another to involve my kids.
Twin - Remember, you don't have to add drama to the situation, or "one up" him. You just have to do what's right for you and your son. Your H has NOTHING to stand on in front of a judge. Just do what is right. You are as special as they come. You will be right.
Originally Posted By: cbih
Today was ONE BUSY DAY for you.
CBIH - Not sure I want another one of these days. I was talking to a friend, re: stress of going outside my comfort zone w/the bank... Can you imagine if I needed insurance!? LOL I'd be at the edge of a cliff!
SB2nd - Welcome to DB. Sorry you're here. I hope you opened your own thread, because you do NOT want to get caught up in the mess of this one!!! I'll look for you. HUG
Originally Posted By: ruledworld
my world was rocked but now I am taking charge
Rocked - (Can't commit to ruled, even though you RULE, too!) I'm borrowing some of your rockin' I love this in your signature. I'm used to taking charge, almost everywhere in my life. I guess I'm in charge of my heart now, too.
Originally Posted By: kara
No flies on you, Mind!!! A MIND is a terrible thing to waste, isn't it? Unfortunately for him, Mr.Mind may soon find that out...
Kara - Ha! I guess I must not stink! Wasted Mind? Nahhh Not good.
The pants story was hilarious. I can't believe my KARA let that happen...!!! I need some more dress pants/trousers. Luckily, mine are all a bit saggy. But, it is DRESS/SKIRT season!!!
Do you have an update? I need MY PMA - And, that is KARA!
Originally Posted By: newmama
MF- keep the momentum. I hope you find strength with every step. Your H is in for a SHOCK!!!!!!!!
Newmama - I have high hopes of keeping the drama in this confrontation at the lowest level possible. I just don't have the desire to deal w/nuts, too. Shock? LOL I am convinced we will experience a new facial expression...
Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
Came here for entertainment as I'm STILL in my sick bed (sofa)! Grrr.
Do tell what the shopping fairy brought today!
Pearl - Isn't it about time for a DR? Seriously!? You're not a very big girl... Are we not past the flu? (Shaking mom finger!)
Shopping fairy? Well, I was at the Verizon store, and they were, AGAIN taking forever w/my phone. I went next door to one of those cheapie stores, and came out w/the most darling wedges!!! They may only make it for a few wears, but they're that cute that it doesn't matter! I adore wedges.
Originally Posted By: StupidRomeo
Mind, I want your mojo!
Romeo - Only took me two years to get some mojo!! There's hope for everyone! Im out of town the next three days... Hopefully, can get to you!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Have fun, wherever you go! I'll only pout a little bit that it's not to visit me.
My malady is viral, nothing a doctor can do. Don't worry, I was raised around the medical profession so I know when to go in and when not to bother. I have no problem going in when necessary. For now it's just more water and rest.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
MF when s2b asked her q, she changed the topic- don't worry. I think you are safe here. As for drama, we can't predict or control how others will act you know? Do you mean you will confront him calmly? But I understand if you don't want to get into that right now!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Hey, Guys! Thanks for checking in. So far, I've had a complete opposite day from yesterday. Lots of non-stress related events. I like!!! No, I Love!
I head off at 5am to go to St Louis for two days for an automation vendor fair. Yipeee! Exciting! Five hours each way, and all day long requirement of being nice! Blech!
I haven't begun to pack. I think I have the children handled. I could always just shop when I get there!
Everyone be good. Keep my thread warm. Ill check in when I can.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
