Yeah well, now that the w has to split her 401k, pension, and IRA she is not so willing to have end quickly. She aslo has to refinance the house at her expense. I stuck by her side for over a year and she has not once intitiated any contact with me except for kid business only. Atleast she has clear boundaries right? Oh well.

I have read your story Awoken and I feel for you so much. I can see that you are a strong man though and you will do just fine. I started getting much better when I focused on my job and my kids. I suggest you do the same.


This new woman respects me for fighting for my marriage, not taking any crap, talking about my thoughts, and being a MAN in general. By the time my wife wakes up(if ever)I will be looooong gone.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final