Who know when you might need my thread Deb...I hope soon.

Now an update and some random thoughts:

My H called today to say that he would be late coming over tonight because a friend of ours wants him to go to the Sportsman Show to look at a camper. I asked if he wanted me to feed the kids and he said yes.

Then I asked what he plans were for the night and he said it depends on how late it gets. He plans to take them overnight tonight or tomorrow night. It is his weekend, but he hasn't taken them to his apartment since the beginning of December so this is weird.

I could stand a little alone time as I have tons to do - Christmas returns, grocery shopping, sleeping ( ) and most of all the playroom and family room projects.

I wish he would stick to the schedule that he insisted on - but am not going to say anything yet. I don't want to appear that I don't like having him here or having a more normal existance for the kids.

So I will go with the flow once again. I'll manage to get done what I can, when I can.

Keep reminding me about the importance of PATIENCE will you all?

Another new mantra:

I can do this - he will come home!

How's that for PMA!?!?!?!?

totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."