Yeah, it's locked up. He went over that one night and later I saw keys in his truck, so I assumed he made copies and went over to change the locks a second time. At that point, I found that he had given me the key back but left the back door unlocked. Pretty bad, it's not a crime ridden neighborhood, but not high class either... it's blue collar, so the expensive lighting and tools could have been stolen.
XBF was an amazing, extremely intelligent man with severe mental issues that stemmed from a messed up childhood. As soon as his mother got him hooked on drugs, he was out the door and out of his mind... so, no, he was never on time for anything, he struggled with low self esteem despite being gorgeous, smart and very well liked in high school. Oh well, it was a loss to the world when he died without having overcome. And lie, this man would tell you that he was born of a virgin one minute and in a petri dish the next, and EXPECT - EARNESTLY EXPECT - you to believe it. That was only when he was high, or seeking a high, though. Yeah, maybe that R with him was meant to teach me how to handle H. I think I'm going to reflect on what happened with XBF and what worked/didn't work and see if any of it will help me here.
