(((((Bunny)))))
I think it's time to just give it to your attorney. No point in arguing.

I mean, how much debt could you have had on a Yugo? Did he have any debt coming into the marriage? And CS for D17 is close to a moot point, anyway, since it would end when she's 18 or graduates from HS in most cases, I think.

He is in fantasy, it's all Bunny's fault, and I can not only blame her, but make her accept the blame, land. He still wants to control.

Here pre-marital assets and debts would be separate, but after 20 years, I think they're probably not really even relevant. Everything else, 50-50, no matter who earned what, who worked, or who didn't work. He is being greedy, and trying to use his twisted logic to get you to agree. Time to just say, sorry, I can't negotiate with you, my attorney will handle it.