Thanks, H4L. I checked out a bit of your thread. . . yes, piecing looks really hard. In some of my musings from the other day, I guess I was realizing that.
Yep, P, that's true. I was wondering today (just a bit) if it's even better to have an OW than not. . . because they are continuing to have "someone" and when that person leaves, there's a void again. My WH, if there is no OW, is just really into this idea of being unattached. . . (sort of George Clooney from Up In the Air-ish) and that seems to be more permanent, I think.
Anyway, random thoughts that don't mean much. Hopefully all this processing is just what I have to do now to heal. . .
I was crazy busy at work today, and it made me so happy. I am kinda excited that when a baby comes, you get really busy. I've always liked the rush of trying to get everything done in a short time!