She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

lol tbart. Don't throw a damn wrench into the works. I mean, remember where you were not too long ago?

Impatience is one of the number one killers on this board. Why the rush? You've gotten more than you bargained for at this point. I mean, you were overseas complaining how your marriage was over.

Well it aint over is it? You're getting positive signs yet you want to get behind the cart and push the crap out of it. I totally understand, it happens all the time here. But if you push too fast, you'll actually make everything go backwards. Don't bring it up. Just focus on yourself and what you need to do to find your own individual happiness. Keep making the changes you need to make.

You guys are on different paths with different thoughts and different emotions. Allow her to find her own way without you having to steer it. That's control.

The lesson here for you - allow life to unfold. Let go of control. Keep your eyes on you.

Remember where you were not that long ago. It won't be hard - just re-read your threads from the beginning.

And don't stay away from the boards so long..lol. I thought you sank yourself in some quicksand or something.