Oh, one more thing - I finally have a boundary to lay down. I am NOT taking this any more.
I'm at work now, and it's the one time in the month each month that I have to work 16 hour days for three days. H woke me at 11 PM last night to ask for his passport, which he found under his seat (and then blamed me for putting it there) - I told him I was sleeping and he got really angry with me. Wanted me to get up NOW and go to his truck so he could show me how he "knew" that I had taken his passport.
I'm going to tell him that I do not appreciate his pulling my fuses or waking me when I am dead asleep. My boundary is that when I am sleeping or on the way to drive the children somewhere, I will not be taken hostage any more. If he ever pulls the fuse trick again, I will call the police and if he wakes me at night again, I will install a deadbolt on the bedroom door. This is bs and I'm exhausted today from lack of sleep and having a very hard time concentrating. I keep coming on here just so that I can rest my mind for a second from the work I'm trying to get done... and that's saying something when being on here is restful compared to what I'm trying to do. LOL.
