1) Dont take anything personal about what is in his letter. It is spew just like the one Bobbi Jo just got. Over time, he may lighten up and become somewhat of a better communicator.
2) He seems to treat his family like subordinates that should just listen to what he says.
3) He is a selfish "ME" man.
4) You should not communicate anymore with him unless it is about bare essentials related to the kids. He is an angry man and he is very hostile (and jealous) towards you...and most unfortunately, his own children.
