lol...yep...my H called with quite a few questions when he left too...about washing clothes, cooking, etc....
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
kissak & Twink, H also called me when he went grocery shopping to ask advice on products "which one should I get?". This after he left me to be with OW. Why didn't he call her?? Boggles your mind doesn't it...they just don't see anything wrong with that picture.
Twink that was pretty calculating on your H's part....6 months before? Did you have any idea that something was wrong and that he was thinking of leaving?
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Mila, at the time I was traveling every 6-8 weeks to see my mother who was ill. It could have been just info for his use when I was gone, but when added to his new cell phone and several other things...yes, I did think he was at least having an A.
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Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
Mila, it wasn't in hindsight. I thought at the time that everything added up to A. That's why I checked his phone when I had the chance. Sometimes I wonder how things would be now if I hadn't, but then I stop myself. It's done. Moving forward.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
Twink, you seem strong and detached and moving on with your life. Good for you . Wish you all the best and hope that your H will realize one day soon what he has given up. (((hugs)))
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Gloomy, depressed H came to pick-up his laundry (Yes he did say that I didn't have to fold it for him). Didn't stay long, was complaining how very tired he is...there was no strength or enthusiasm in his voice...he just looked totally beaten by life. No kiss or hug when he came or left.
Oh well, tomorrow is another day.
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Hey Mila, I was thinking about your laundry dilemma. You know, I wouldn't have finished it, I probably would have set it on top of the machine, done mine, and let him come in to finish his.
But the thing is, here we are on the same board. Laundry washed and folded --- versus --- not washed and folded!!!!!!!
So it probably doesn't matter if you washed and folded it or not, lol! You can just feel good about having done something nice for your H. Especially since he sounds so depressed, I hope he gets some help or snaps out of it soon.
. Wish you all the best and hope that your H will realize one day soon what he has given up. (((hugs)))