Hi upside, I was just reading through your tread, I'm so happy for you, looks like your H is truly trying to reconnect
My H has announced about 3 weeks ago that his affair is over and that he wants to R. We are not nearly at the point that you are at yet. H is currently going through OW's withdrawal and is very depressed and withdrawn.
I have a question for you, if I may. When your H first asked to come back, did he become more affectionate towards you? Hugs & kisses when he comes over etc. Mine used to greet me with XO when he came even while he was having the affair and since he said that he wants to R he stopped...he is pleasant and friendly, but absolutely no physical contact. I'm not sure what to make of that? I was wondering what was your experience?
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
