I disagree with you Allen - and you weren't there.
Disagreement is senseless here, I wasn't there and the entire exchange between you and your H isn't on this forum.
All I can post to is what you have written here.
Telling me I wasn't there isn't relevant. I am telling you what I get from your posts, that's all i have to work with.
You are arguing about what happened between you and your husband. I am talking about what I am reading on this forum.
You may be right in life, he may have invited yo to compete. But you haven't written that on this forum anywhere that i have read.. and no I don't have everyone of your posts burned into my memory for immediate recall.
Yes, he probably was expecting you to compete, but I don't think you said that outright on this forum, and I still don't see that sort of thing occur on this forum very often... Which was my point... Even if your H did invite you to compete, he's in the minority.. Most don't suggest something this rude.
Most spouses hide the affair (mb28's WH, Passenger's WH) or they just parade the affair about and drop all the friends who disagree with them (Maynard's wife is an excellent example)
And yes I know Passenger's WH did parade about too early on... but Passenger's Exposure approach was so damn solid and thorough he had to go into hiding again.... She NAILED it and he had to run for cover. Either way, Pass' H has never invited her to compete either. I think his behaviour is implying that, but he isnt' rude enough to suggest it outright. Even HE hasn't gone that far yet.
I don't see many at all who invite the LBS to compete... Your H is a very special case on this forum... that's been proven by yourself already I think... At least to my recollection.
