NC, one of my friends just told me his divorce was final that day--and then introduced me to his girlfriend!!!
I can't believe that about the BS. You know, my D10 did GS last year (couldn't this year, but plan to again next year when I can get flextime). I think GS is very AS-friendly, at least our troop. The other girls do help out D10 sometimes; she is a little bit-emotionally and developmentally delayed, just a bit. They just take a little more repetition sometimes. Have you talked to the Scout Leader or whoever's in charge about your concerns?