JacT and Lees, sorry to find us all in similar sitchs. I guess remembering what we can control and can't is important here i.e. good friends sticking their heads in the sand, and the lies that WAS's spew forth.
On this last point, I have another question.
I would like to send my friend, who is housing WAH, the "love as an excuse for infidelity' paper by Penny Tuppy.
I felt it would be educative and combat the 'these things just happen' statements. Would you consider it "pushy" if I fowarded it with an accompanying email which says something like "I respect your right to have your own views & hate mixing you up in all this. But out of respect for our friendshio and free exchange of ideas, I wanted to send you this article I came across on the web about love as an excuse for infidelity. I hope you find the time to read it and would be interested to know your thoughts'.
