I agree Saffie.If it had been me, he would have been out long ago and I am living with the consequences of throwing my H out.Pass needs to be sure its what she wants or at least is strong enough to deal with the consequences of which there will be plenty given this guys behaviour in the past.I believe in this sitch as long as Pass integrity is intact and she feels she has tried all she can to save the M at this pont, then its the best place to be at this time....


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith