CELL PHONE BILL - MINE is off of OURS CELL PHONE - NEW BB Tour - Completely set-up and everything transferred over (STRESS!!!!) BANKING - NEW Checking Account opened BANKING - Direct Deposit set-up BANKING - Online bill payment for the cell phone bill BANKING - Cashed three checks today (required TWO banks to do so)
NAILS - Pedicure and Fill/Manicure - BOTH are FRENCH
SHOPPED - (DUH, It's a Monday, and Tuesday's are good.)
On the way to suburbs to take S13 to his soccer game. Tired as hell... Glad my friend is driving.
D18 has unofficially moved back in (temporarily)until her new apartment is ready. AND, she's invaded my closet, left an unmade bed, crumbs all over the kitchen counter, etc... Grrr! But, she makes me laugh. And, that's good right now.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
My H is still living at home but told me last week that he does not want to try anymore. I would like to know what the response should be from me. We are still communicating and stuff but I really would like for him to stay in our home and try and work it out rather than him leave. He has been sleeping on the couch for the past two weeks. His choice not mine. There has been no fighting and in fact I really thought things were getting better. His telling me he did not want to try anymore came as a result of me trying to be romatic and have sex. I am almost positive he is having trouble hormone wise as well as a MLC. Any thoughts or suggestions. 2nd Marriage for both of us. Married 11 years.
Sorry your day has been so stressful my friend. Glad to see you fit nails/shopping in....
Sounds like you are taking care of business... and as hard and stressful as that is, each step you take is one step closer to getting all this done for yourself.
You are going to get through this and we are all here for you. (some more than others by the sound of things from Fergie and Jeff... lol )
No flies on you, Mind!!! A MIND is a terrible thing to waste, isn't it? Unfortunately for him, Mr.Mind may soon find that out...
Glad to see that you "managed" to squeeze in a little shopping there . I saw a great pair of pants last week in one of my favorite boutiques. There were only four on the rack and one was in my size but the designer's cut seemed small. As I stood debating whether to try the size above, a woman came out of nowhere, snatched MY SIZE off the rack and rushed off. Before I could say "GIMME THOSE PANTS", Ms. Grabby was at the register paying for the size I wanted and SAW FIRST and then scooting out of the store AS FAST AS HER HEELS COULD TAKE HER. Grrr. That is the boutique equivalent of stealing a parking space. NOT NICE!!!!! I am still in shock. Really, some people. (I really don't think they will suit her at all. At least that is how I am consoling myself.)
Glad to see that your daughter is at home. I am sure that she will be good for some laughs.
sb2ndmarriage, sweetie, start your own thread by going to "index" and "start new topic" which is at the bottom of the posts.
MF- keep the momentum. I hope you find strength with every step. Your H is in for a SHOCK!!!!!!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
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