W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

I get what you mean. How would I or what would I say and not make matter worse. I will say this though, my W has settled down. My positive approach has shifted her attitude, not much, but at least we were talking again minus the attitude.

My has the notorious habit of saying "nothing" whenever asked if something is wrong or bothering her, she has been like that for years.