Find your voice. Stomp that yard. All that crap.

[BobbiJo]

K,

I


Love


You!

Thanks for making me smile...

[BobbiJo]

Wow....just got the longest spew-laden email ever.

He hatessssssssssssssss me. Said he would tell the kids its all dad's fault bc it is true he left, but it is bc he couldn't stand living with the most selfish person in the world. So I can hate him for hurting the kids but he already hates me for the same...

And that is the extremely condensed version...sheesh.

Issues...

[Kalni]

Bbj,
seriously, if I hear a word about you wanting Dan ever again...!!!

He is cheap.The man is just unbelievable.
K

Please tell him about the Barbie doll, THAT will kill him!!
(love you too, chin up!!)

[Buffet]

Hey BBJ---sorry this has been a s*** day. I think that YOU will feel alot better and in turn be able to lead your kiddos alot better after you tell them. I also think that in this case it would be better for the kids to hear your story b/c you never know what kind of crazed wacky story XH and XMIL maybe trying to conjure up.

My XW still has not told some of her family members about the D b/c she has not had enough time to build her case up to them---I would not be surprised, check that I would almost bank on it that XH of yours is trying to pint his own picture about what is going on and when/if he gets around to telling the kids it will be in a way that they will think you messed up not him.

Hang in there and thinking about you, I know how tough this has to be for you

[Generosity]

@Bbj>>>"He hatessssssssssssssss me."

He hates himself, and gives himself good reasons to do so.

Don't buy what he's selling...

Straight to the delete file, where it belongs.



(((Bbj)))


Sunny

*Great retort, K!!

[smith18]

Dont respond to his email.

[BobbiJo]

Dont respond to his email.

Kerry, how do you know me so well? The draft is just sitting there...

But


But


But


Proverbs 26:4 Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him yourself.


Proverbs 23:9 Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, For he will despise the wisdom of your words.

OH-KAY...............grumble grumble no fun being bigger person grumble grumble...

[BeginningAgain]

Not that it justifies a single idiotic thing he has done today - but I suspect Dan may have received a bit of "intel" on your Friday night date and it has sent him spinning up into the ceiling. Dan cannot tolerate what Dan cannot control.

[BobbiJo]

He would be livid. He despises GG and has since high school. That alone was reason to go out with him once...

[BobbiJo]

I did reply. I just said, "So you didn't mention when/where we will meet to review what we say when we tell the kids. Since you are busy tomorrow I will come over tonight after they are in bed and we can review the plan."

If he ducks out of it I will tell them by myself tomorrow. He can add it to the list of things he hates about me....

If he agrees we will review tonight and then tell them together Wednesday. I am not at all worried about him telling them beforehand without me. Because my Nathan knows me so well. I have made it clear to him from the get go that I love his daddy and have fought for us to be together. He will know who tried and who did not.