Thanks everyone for your thoughts....your support really helps in the dark hours. It is clear that depression is a major issue, and W knows she needs to get better to move forward. Still set on D, but is in no hurry at this point. So time is on my side. Going to focus on GAL and focussing on the new and better me. Will be there for her when she needs me, but need to focus on making myself better and stronger.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012