Sorry to hear of the most recent financial development. you have your financial ducks in a row as we discussed last month, his reaction while unfortunate, is not unexpected or unplanned by you, it just happened a few weeks sooner than you anticipated.
A gate has been opened.. now implement your plan.. now is not the time for emotions, although I know it's tempting and easy to to... it's time for action. Use your lamaze breathing.. work through the pain & birth this baby. You've done it before .. you can do it again.
In my former state of residence, in your papers for filing for divorce you can request IMMEDIATE & TEMPORARY spousal support & child support, I would anticipate the same in Cali? He may have removed the current means of support from easy access, but he knows he can't get by with it for long,
I was also told that debt incurred because of lack spousal support can be assigned to the other party in the divorce settlement, so as was suggested earlier.. keep meticulous receipts and use your joint and/or individual credit cards to make payments & support yourself & your kids.
he is trying to intimidate you & get the upper hand through fear... you have the means & where with all to calmly walk around that ploy. put on the big girl panties
snap & l8r bridge
Last edited by Bridgestone; 04/26/1007:51 PM.
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