Thanks Allen and Pup. I will email a thanks,and have the other line as backup in case WAH mentions it (he wont though - never does).
The contents of the email were along the lines of how selfish and cruel WAH is to have left a pregnant wife and how his continued actions are putting our health at risk --- ok, so nothing too shocking there.. it's just that is wasn't elegant and it was straight out character assasination.
I think I am worrying over nothing. Coddling WAH again.
What I do disagree with however is how the friend calls the A a "relationship" and instead of arguing to WAH that our M could be saved, says he could have waited until after the birth to separate from me. Ouch.
I think i should stop trying to control every little detail.